Hey there, fabyoulous moms (and future moms)!
Today, I want to share something incredibly close to my heart: being a girl mom. As a proud mom of three beautiful girls, I’ve learned so much along the way and can’t wait to share my journey with you. Whether you’re well-versed in the world of raising daughters or just beginning your journey, I hope you’ll find encouragement and some practical advice through personal experience and journey.
The Magic of Raising Daughters
So let’s start with the pure magic of raising daughters. From the moment I found out I was having a girl, I felt this incredible bond forming. There’s something so special about the way girls bring joy, laughter, and a sprinkle of pretty emotions into our lives. Watching them grow, seeing their personalities blossom, and sharing those tender mother-daughter moments is truly a gift.
I remember when my first daughter was born. The overwhelming love I felt was unlike anything I’d ever experienced. As I held her, I promised myself like every mother out there that I would do everything to be the best mom I could be. Fast forward a few years, and I found myself making the same promise with my second and third daughters. Each one brought a new kind of joy, and each one taught me something different about being a mom!
Finding Balance In The Chaos
Now things getting real coz parenting in general, is no walk in the park, and being a girl mom comes with its unique set of challenges. From navigating the world of unicorn dresses and princess tiaras to dealing with the emotional rollercoasters of growing up, it’s a wild ride. But finding balance in the chaos is key.
Our house can get pretty hectic with three girls running around, and sometimes it feels like I’m juggling a thousand things at once. One thing that has helped me the most is creating a routine that works for everyone, but I also leave room for flexibility. After all, life with kids is anything but predictable! There are days when we just have to roll with the punches and embrace the unexpected. IYKYK.
Fostering Individuality
One of the most important lessons I’ve learned so far is to nurture each child’s individuality. My three girls are so different from one another, and it’s essential to recognize and mould their unique strengths and interests into their capabilities. Whether it’s art, sports, or academics, I encourage them to pursue their passions and be true to themselves regardless of my ambitions for them. Of course I want them all to be independent, smart and successful but on their own talent.
My eldest ones loves drawing and spends hours creating beautiful artwork. My middle daughter is a little athlete, always on the move and ready for the next game. And my youngest, well, she’s still figuring it out, but her curiosity and enthusiasm are boundless. By supporting their individual interests, I’m helping them build confidence and a sense of self-worth.
Building Confidence
As a girl mom, I feel a deep responsibility to build my daughters’ confidence and self-esteem. The world can be tough on girls, with unrealistic beauty standards and societal pressures. I always make it a point to remind my girls that they are beautiful just the way they are. Having little pep talks about self -worth is a small but powerful way to reinforce positivity and I make sure to keep their outlook for life positive. I always thrive to build a strong foundation of self – love and confidence in my girls.
Friendships and Social Dynamics
Ah, the drama of girls and their friendships! We have all been there. Girls can be pretty intense when it comes to their social circles, and navigating these dynamics can be tricky. My advice? Be there to listen and offer guidance, but also give them the space to figure things out on their own. Encourage empathy, kindness, and the importance of being a good friend. And remember, sometimes all they need is a hug and a reminder that they are loved unconditionally.
One evening, my eldest daughter was upset because of a disagreement with one of her friends. We talked about it, and I helped her see things from her friend’s perspective. It wasn’t about solving the problem for her but guiding her to understand and navigate the situation herself.
Embracing The Mess and Imperfections
Now, let’s talk about something we all know too well – the mess! From glitter explosions to arts and crafts disasters and dismantled pieces of doll houses everywhere, being a girl mom means embracing the mess and imperfections. Our home is far from picture-perfect, and that’s okay. It’s filled with love, laughter, and memories that will last a lifetime. So, let go of the need for perfection and savor the beautiful chaos.
Our living room often looks like a tornado hit it, with toys scattered everywhere and craft supplies all over the place. But amidst the mess, there’s a lot of creativity and fun happening. I’ve learned to embrace it and see the beauty in the chaos. After all, these moments won’t last forever, and I want to cherish them while I can because I read somewhere, ” They will be little only for a little while” and yes it hit me hard!!!
Leading An Example
Lastly, I believe in leading by example. Our daughters are always watching us, and they learn so much from our actions. I strive to show them the importance of self-care, kindness, and resilience. I want them to see that it’s okay to take time for themselves, to stand up for what they believe in, and to never give up on their dreams.
I make it a point to take care of myself, whether it’s through skincare routines, exercise, or simply taking a few moments of quiet time. By doing so, I’m teaching my girls the value of self-love and self-care. And most importantly, being a mother, I involve them in religious practices and activities that promote kindness in them, showing them the importance of empathy and compassion.
Being a girl mom is a journey filled with ups and downs, but it’s a journey I wouldn’t trade for anything in the world. Each day brings new lessons, challenges, and moments of pure joy. So, to all the girl moms out there – embrace the journey, cherish the moments, and know that you’re doing an amazing job. Have you faced similar challenges with your daughters? How do you help them build their confidence and self-esteem?
Here’s to raising strong, confident, and compassionate girls who will change the world!